"Autism doesn't come with a manual, it comes with a parent that never gives up."

Quick List
1. We went through the very long process to get Nora a Care Manager. Her name is Laurie and she seems very nice! She's helpful, things...

Today was not a good day.
I took Nora to Chittenango Falls State Park today. We lasted 55 minutes. She was content for 12 of those minutes. After she played on the...

“Wanna snuggle”
Life is a blur these days. How about you? Working at home mostly. I go to the office a couple days a week. No school. Summer school...

3:36am
We are nearly two months into school. Rough start, but now Nora seems excited to go. I hate that she’s 40 minutes away, but I know it’s...

Little Lukes.
Update: Andrew and I toured Little Lukes yesterday. It seems great. What we want. It’s the only place with an opening. It’s 35 minutes...

What’s the next step?
Last week Nora had her CPSE meeting. (Committee for preschool special education) Due to her evaluation scores she qualifies. She scored a...

“You can’t live an exceptional life by being normal” -Dr. Temple Grandin
Andrew and I went to an Autism conference today. It was an amazing opportunity. Dr. Temple Grandin was a speaker, and my god did she blow...

My house is trashed.
Sometimes I feel like the only time I post anymore is when I have a rough day. Maybe it’s my way of venting. Or maybe it’s because I feel...

27 hours.
Yesterday Nora woke up around 5am. By "woke up" I mean she could barely stand, speak or keep her eyes open. She was responsive, but...

Bye, Summer.
Summer always gets away from me. Time in general seems to get away from me. Nora will be 3 come February and there are so many changes to...

Crash Pad
So last weekend Andrew and I redecorated the computer room and made it into a little nook for Nora. We painted it purple, and used...

Team Nora Sage
Last weekend was the Oneida Walk for Autism. My God, we were shown so much love. How thankful I am to have such wonderful friends and...

Semi Annual
Nora had her six month meeting yesterday. We met her service coordinator. She was nice and receptive to everything I said. I have only...

Scary.
About two weeks ago Nora woke up and she was off. Very tired and groggy. So her and I went downstairs and I just assumed she wasn't...

ENERGY.
Happy Sunday! Nora is a wild woman today. Running. Jumping. Rolling. God damn where does this energy come from? We ran some errands this...

Breathe Easy.
If someone told me six months ago that this is where I would be, I would have probably slept a lot better. Nora was officially diagnosed...

Two.
Today I woke up to a two year old. When I say "woke up" I mean I got a kick to the rib. Blessed. My wild child. So full of energy....

Productive Appropriate Play.
A milestone that Nora did not hit initially was "productive appropriate play." Nora would play with normal toys- but she would throw...

Bad parenting 101.
I have a bad mouth. Fuck this, eat shit that. I know. I'm terrible. I would say I will try to watch my mouth, but I'd be lying .🤦 Last...



















